Dear Mr. President

Dear Mr. President,

I know you have many czars and consultants as well as many Americans who would love to offer you advice on your present Health Care Plan. I, too, would like to offer some brief insights, not on the Health Care Plan (not enough space for that) but in the process by which you are trying to accomplish your objective in getting it passed. You see, Mr. President, I have worked with, and continue to work with companies who are trying to change any number of things within the organization or their people or even within themselves and they have the same type of problems you are having. So if I may sir, here are some important points to remember:

1. There is a difference between adaptive change and technical change. An example of technical change is changing the time on the clock to Daylight Savings time. Simple. Adaptive change is getting used to the change physically, mentally, behaviorally, attitudinally, etc. Complex. Don't confuse a simple change with an adaptive one! If you do, confusion, resistance, resentment and anger increases. "Why does it increase," you ask, Mr. President? Good question, sir. 

2. Because adaptive change challenges a person's sense of competence, how they see themselves and define who they are. Therefore adaptive changes need smaller steps, experiments, new discoveries and time for people to 'own' their response.

3. Mr. President, people don't resist change as much as they resist the possible 'loss' they perceive they will have. They may perceive they will lose control. They will lose who they are, what they have worked for, what they stand for. Most people like the status quo, it's more comfortable and they have come to believe it's the safest place to be.

4. The deeper the change required and the greater the amount of education needed, the more resistance there will be. You can expect people to react and attack you personally (vs. the change you want to make). Most of us only know you as Mr. President and the role you play and not the husband and dad you are. So the way you handle the attacks that are made against you  personally (vs. the change) will ultimately determine your personal fate, sir. All you have to do is look at the way your predecessors handled the 'heat' (Mr. Reagan and Mr. Clinton would be good examples for 'how to' and 'not to' handle the heat when making changes in my opinion).

5. If people believe there is nothing they can do about the changes being pushed upon them then they will look for alternatives. If the alternatives provided are not acceptable, then you can expect people to actively find ways to compete against and defeat your plan.

6. And finally Mr. President, just because you have authority to make changes doesn't mean people will follow you. Becoming powerful is because people are loyal to you as a person not your position. So be an example in the adaptive changes you suggest and 'you go first'. Lead by example.

Thank you for your time sir,

rb

P.S. The above thoughts to the President are meant strictly as an allegory for how most people respond to changes whether in business, education, churches, and even families.

Finally, a quote I ran across that I'm curious as to your response: "Remember we don't really create meaning; we find it. And we can't find it unless we look for it. Although we are not always aware of it, meaning is present in every moment even in what we may view as the darkest hours of our lives."

7 comments (Add your own)

1. erynn wrote:
great letter.

Wed, November 11, 2009 @ 12:03 PM

2. Coy Kersey wrote:
I have wondered for a long time - what has happened to our nation? - I believe this Blog has hit on the underlying problem. America did not become Great by being comfortable with the status quo!

If a person's sense of competence is materially challenged by change, they need help! If companies are having above normal problems with employee acceptance of change, they need new people!

This is by no means a statement of support for President Obama, I voted President Reagan the best President in a FaceBook poll. But I do not fear whatever change comes from the legislators on the Health Care Plan, I will deal with it.

Wed, November 11, 2009 @ 6:07 PM

3. Dr. Ron wrote:
Appreciate your comment Coy. You are absolutely correct on America becoming great...it won't happen with status quo. If you're satisfied with average, with things as they are now, you will be left behind, and ovewhelmed by those not satisfied. And you are also correct on companies who exceed the competition with individuals who are not afraid of adaptive change in the best interest of their company.
Thanks.

Wed, November 11, 2009 @ 6:28 PM

4. Bob McC wrote:
:)

Wed, November 11, 2009 @ 11:48 PM

5. Mark Stinger wrote:
People tend to change when the pain of same is greater than the pain of change. (When we can't zip up our tight pants, we go work out.)

I don't think we've reached that point in health care. Tort reform and other changes are needed, but I think the financial pain of the proposed change would be much greater on the majority of Americans. I believe the Democrats are trying to broaden their base with more entitlements, but that's neither here nor there; I'll get off my soapbox.

In my current role as a consultant, the greatest level of resistence is usually from the people that feel the least competent in their current role. Then we come in and make suggestions that threaten their status quo. Look out. It's amazing to see the wide variations in responses to proposed change to a known system, no matter how archaic.

Fri, November 13, 2009 @ 12:56 PM

6. Dr. Ron wrote:
Great thoughts on greatest level of resistance. They have the most to lose.

Fri, November 13, 2009 @ 4:59 PM

7. Buck wrote:
In response to the quote at the end of the blog. There are many similarities between "meaning" and "God" based on this quote alone. We don't create God, we find him. We can only find Him if we really seek Him. Finally, God is present in every moment of our lives even if we don't know it and even in the darkest hours. We might miss Him because we are not focused on searching for Him. Instead we are more focused on our circumstances.

In my life, I want God to be my "meaning". However, that is much easier to say than do much of the time.

Sat, November 14, 2009 @ 8:50 AM

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